Meal Memories
In the sixties and seventies,
we seven sat around a table,
which took up most of our
tiny kitchen.
Dad sat on the end, by the
living room,
free to go relax when he was
done eating.
On Thanksgiving, he always carved
the turkey.
He’d joke that when he got up
in the middle of the night
for a snack
and reach for a turkey leg
he’d get six forks in his
hand.
I sat to his left and was the
one
who was close enough to the
cupboards
and the door to the back
porch.
I was the gopher. Go for
this, go for that.
When a spoon was needed from
the cupboard
or a jar of pickles from the
basement,
I was the one to get it.
Mom was too the left of me.
Looking back I think I had
this position
so both Mom and Dad could
help me
since I was the littlest
until I was six,
when my little sister came
along.
I always tilted my chair back.
Mom always warned me that I’d
fall,
but I never did. Mom sat by
the stove
so she could reach what was
needed.
My little sister jammed between
Mom
and my older sister because
the table
was really only big enough
for six.
She loved olives and put one
on each finger.
My older sister was on the
other end
because she was the only lefty.
It kept her from bumping
the sisters on each side of
her.
Then came my next sister up
from me.
She liked to eat across an ear
of corn
like a typewriter, dinging at
the end.
My second oldest sister sat
between her and Dad.
We couldn’t say turkey skin
because it grossed her out.
No one would have guessed
she’d become a registered
nurse.
We didn’t have napkins
but would pass around a towel
when someone would say, “Towel
please.”
Looking back, I think that’s
gross.
We talked around the table.
Dad would make his jokes.
He’d burp and Mom would say,
“What do you say Jim?”
trying to teach her five girls
manners.
And he’d say, “Buuurrrrrp!”
Whether Thanksgiving or not
meals were fun and peaceful
times.
We’d save our tiffs for
later.