Tuesday, January 2, 2024

Setting PAD 22-2

 The Little Me

 

My sister has a painting

of children in old fashioned garb:

the girls in long dresses

and the boys in ruffles and knickers.

They’re walking down a road

toward a gate, accompanied by a collie.

The focal point is a little girl and boy,

about seven or eight years old.

They’re walking together, holding hands.

His attention is on her. She’s smiling.  

I always liked that painting.

The little girl looks like me as a child.

 

In Northern Ireland, the owner

of Kelly Moon Castle gave us a tour.

We oohed and aahed at the refurbished rooms

filled with fancy furnishings, beautiful staircases,

myriads of statues, antiques and paintings.

Imagine our surprise when a painting, the same

as my sister’s, hung on one of the walls.

We took pictures of what my sister called,

“The little you.” It made me feel special,

like I was the little girl in the picture,

with Someone I loved smiling at me.   

 

Monday, January 1, 2024

Setting PAD 22-1

 Carrick-a-Rede Rope Bridge

 

Nearly 100 feet

over the rocks and sea.

 “Take a step, don’t look down!”

An adventurer’s treat,

Carrick-a-Rede Rope Bridge.

Northern Ireland, so sweet. 

If you’re acrophobic,

crossing is quite a feat.

Please, don’t bounce on the planks!

“Take a step, don’t look down!”

It helps if you repeat.

Sunday, December 31, 2023

extrovert introvert PAD 21-3

 Motivation

 

I never minded being quiet,

observing, listening, learning.

But I hated being shy.

Fear prevented me from doing

the things I wanted to do:

sharing, singing, speaking,

playing sports, performing,

teaching, interacting with others.

I still go in and out

of that proverbial shell

like some kind of hermit crab.

Desire to be a life participant

rather than a spectator

motivates me to come out of hiding.

Saturday, December 30, 2023

introvert extrovert PAD 21-2

 Introverts tend to write

Then we are asked to speak

And so we fake it till we make it

Friday, December 29, 2023

introvert/extrovert PAD 21-1

 An Odd Pairing

 

It took me a while

To realize this but

My husband

The life of the party

Loud

In front of the crowd

Hurricane in motion

Booming out his songs

Playing his bass guitar

Preferred to get away

Play solitaire, pray

Read his Bible

Spend a quiet evening at home

He is an extroverted introvert.

 

At church I was known

As the bass player’s wife

Never said anything.

Always listening.

Often overlooked.

But preferring to be with people

Active and laughing with friends

Enjoying life with a partner

Traveling, hiking, exploring.

Eating out

I’m an introverted extrovert.

 

We’ve mellowed out over the years.

He has become more introverted,

I have become more extroverted.

Maybe not so odd of a pairing.

Thursday, December 28, 2023

Even PA 20-1

 Even Steven

 

Christmas time at my mother-in-law’s,

we’d find an odd amount of loose change

in our Christmas stockings.

 

Not one to play favorites, she made sure

she spent the exact same amount

on each of her family members.  

 

If she paid a little less for your gift,

she’d add the necessary change

to make it even.

 

We thought it overboard,

but we knew

we were equally loved.

Wednesday, December 27, 2023

Customized PAD 19

 I Do As Is

 

Don’t try to customize your spouse

Accept the package all as is

There may be things that you don’t like

But focus on the ones you do

 

If you are prone to rant and rave

Don’t try to customize your spouse

Just state your case so lovingly

Perhaps served with a slice of pie

 

Look deep within at your own self

What changes can you make in you

Don’t try to customize your spouse

Your task at hand is hard enough

 

Look for those things to thank them for

Be slow to wrath, quick to forgive

And grow together over time

Don’t try to customize your spouse