After Two Strokes
After my husband’s two strokes
things changed, yet stayed the same.
We’re still married, live in the same house,
have the same kids who live away.
We don’t have the same people living with us,
two adults with developmental disabilities.
Where once we were limited by what they could do,
now we’re limited by what my husband can do.
But yet I find some freedom as well.
I travel more, while he can stay with the kids.
He’s more relatable with his increased laughter and tears.
We can communicate on a deeper level,
though he doesn’t speak as clearly
and I don’t hear as well as I used to.
We eat three meals together like clockwork,
praying with thanksgiving beforehand.
We’ve been married 45 years, almost 46.
I tell him, “Let’s go for the gold.”
We’re aiming to love God and others,
like always, while we’re here on earth.