She’s been thinking about things that don’t need thinking
about. Fantasies may occupy the moment but don’t make
a bad marriage better. If she needs to wish something, she
needs to wish for the ability to respect him as he is and
to understand that her own happiness isn’t her main concern.
She made a vow that involves more than herself. Just like she
loves her children no matter what, she needs to love him simply
because he’s her husband and that’s the only reason she needs.